Growing yourself
In knowing yourself
Freedom is not a gift
To be given.
It is for the taking
If you're open to receiving
Whatever comes your way
Your journey
Your journey
Your journey
In my explorations, I have seen that, although we all share the same aware presence, we are also very unique. Therefore no one can tell you exactly how to get home. Luckily, when you are open to finding your way, clues are scattered everywhere.
For me, many of these pointers have been shown after sharing curiosity, truth, feelings and silence with all kinds of people. With every sharing life was showing me - inviting me - to share more of it. And now, being that life, I am inviting you to share more of yourself. So we can see how to get you home.
If you are curious about growing your love and breaking free of everything that seems to be holding you back, I invite you to send me a message. So we can look at how to start - or rather, continue - your journey.
I am looking forward to meeting you
In my explorations, I have seen that, although we all share the same aware presence, we are also very unique. Therefore no one can tell you exactly how to get home. Luckily, when you are open to finding your way, clues are scattered everywhere.
For me, many of these pointers have been shown after sharing curiosity, truth, feelings and silence with all kinds of people. With every sharing life was showing me - inviting me - to share more of it. And now, being that life, I am inviting you to share more of yourself. So we can see how to get you home.
If you are curious about growing your love and breaking free of everything that seems to be holding you back, I invite you to send me a message. So we can look at how to start - or rather, continue - your journey.
I am looking forward to meeting you
How would you like to explore?
How would you like to explore?
How would you like to explore?
Individual Exchange
Individual Exchange
A simple digital get-together where you are free to share whatever is on your mind or in your heart. Simply send me a message, and I'll get in touch to schedule a time that works for you.
A simple digital get-together where you are free to share whatever is on your mind or in your heart. Simply send me a message, and I'll get in touch to schedule a time that works for you.
Sharing Circle
Sharing Circle
A digital gathering in a group setting. Here, you'll not only have the opportunity to share yourself, but you'll also learn from and hold space for others. As a facilitator, I will guide the circle and safeguard the space in which we get to explore whatever you feel like exploring. If you wish to join, please also just send me a message.
A digital gathering in a group setting. Here, you'll not only have the opportunity to share yourself, but you'll also learn from and hold space for others. As a facilitator, I will guide the circle and safeguard the space in which we get to explore whatever you feel like exploring. If you wish to join, please also just send me a message.
Boo Rah
Attention
Love
Light
Self - Knowledge
Growth
Boo Rah
Attention
Love
Light
Self - Knowledge
Growth
Boo Rah
Attention
Love
Light
Self - Knowledge
Growth
About Me
About Me
About Me
About Me
Some call me Berend, Beer, Berry, Bee, or Sweetheart (although, to be honest, that’s just my mom), but I’m fine with whatever name you choose to call me. I’ve been on my journey for about 38 years, and during that time, I’ve taken on many roles: a student, a traveler, a boyfriend, a financial advisor, a teacher, a trainer, a coach, and a manager. By now, all of these have been merged into the freedom of just being as I am in every moment.
It all changed for me when I started meditating about eight years ago. In small bursts and with what seemed to be a lot of effort, I slowly started to realize there was more to me than just my thoughts. It helped me see more of myself, and it gave me the will and courage to search for, and listen to, the freedom of my own inner truth. With a growing ability to act on what felt right, instead of what I had always believed was right, a lot of life unfolded: a painful breakup, quitting the job I loved, traveling to Nepal and India, and asking my brother to move in with me after he tried to end his life. I see now very clearly, all of it was helpful. Necessary. To embrace to beauty in everything.
It showed me the depth of my existence: my feelings, my emotions, my thoughts, my fullness, and my emptiness. And it showed me that all of us are held within this same space of being, waiting to be embraced by the light of our own clear seeing.
Some call me Berend, Beer, Berry, Bee, or Sweetheart (although, to be honest, that’s just my mom), but I’m fine with whatever name you choose to call me. I’ve been on my journey for about 38 years, and during that time, I’ve taken on many roles: a student, a traveler, a boyfriend, a financial advisor, a teacher, a trainer, a coach, and a manager. By now, all of these have been merged into the freedom of just being as I am in every moment.
It all changed for me when I started meditating about eight years ago. In small bursts and with what seemed to be a lot of effort, I slowly started to realize there was more to me than just my thoughts. It helped me see more of myself, and it gave me the will and courage to search for, and listen to, the freedom of my own inner truth. With a growing ability to act on what felt right, instead of what I had always believed was right, a lot of life unfolded: a painful breakup, quitting the job I loved, traveling to Nepal and India, and asking my brother to move in with me after he tried to end his life. I see now very clearly, all of it was helpful. Necessary. To embrace to beauty in everything.
It showed me the depth of my existence: my feelings, my emotions, my thoughts, my fullness, and my emptiness. And it showed me that all of us are held within this same space of being, waiting to be embraced by the light of our own clear seeing.
Blog
Contemplations
Contemplations
Contemplations
What is Life
But a synonym
For change?
Look at That
Which Is
Changeless.
What is Life
But a synonym
For change?
Look at That
Which Is
Changeless.
What is Life
But a synonym
For change?
Look at That
Which Is
Changeless.
The path is unfolding
In This Infinite destination.
Knowing That
Is Being the Path
While walking it.
The path is unfolding
In This Infinite destination.
Knowing That
Is Being the Path
While walking it.
The path is unfolding
In This Infinite destination.
Knowing That
Is Being the Path
While walking it.
If you want to help yourself
Stop listening to other people telling you
how to help yourself
If you want to help yourself
Stop listening to other people telling you
how to help yourself
If you want to help yourself
Stop listening to other people telling you
how to help yourself
When you think
There is a specific way of being
Stop thinking and see
There is just Being
When you think
There is a specific way of being
Stop thinking and see
There is just Being
When you think
There is a specific way of being
Stop thinking and see
There is just Being
FAQ'S
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Got a quick question?
Got a quick question?
I am here to help. Explore the frequently asked questions and find answers below or send me a personal message by using the contact form.
I am here to help. Explore the frequently asked questions and find answers below or send me a personal message by using the contact form.
What to expect from an Individual Exchange?
What to expect from an Individual Exchange?
What to expect from an Individual Exchange?
What to expect from a sharing circle?
What to expect from a sharing circle?
What to expect from a sharing circle?
Will it be helpful to me?
Will it be helpful to me?
Will it be helpful to me?
How to prepare?
How to prepare?
How to prepare?
What does it cost?
What does it cost?
What does it cost?
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REVIEWS
Community Speaks
Community Speaks
Community Speaks
"My experience of Berend is of someone who has a huge love and drive for living from Truth. His love for life is very inspiring. He can enjoy you just for being you with an open heart and a silent mind. But don’t be fooled, he can also challenge you right where you need to be challenged with his sharp eye and mind. Combine this with a gift for speaking inspired words that come out of nowhere, but touch you at exactly the right spot and you have a recipe for a delicious, nutritious and healing meal served in a session with him"
Sukanto Custers
"My experience of Berend is of someone who has a huge love and drive for living from Truth. His love for life is very inspiring. He can enjoy you just for being you with an open heart and a silent mind. But don’t be fooled, he can also challenge you right where you need to be challenged with his sharp eye and mind. Combine this with a gift for speaking inspired words that come out of nowhere, but touch you at exactly the right spot and you have a recipe for a delicious, nutritious and healing meal served in a session with him"
Sukanto Custers
"My experience of Berend is of someone who has a huge love and drive for living from Truth. His love for life is very inspiring. He can enjoy you just for being you with an open heart and a silent mind. But don’t be fooled, he can also challenge you right where you need to be challenged with his sharp eye and mind. Combine this with a gift for speaking inspired words that come out of nowhere, but touch you at exactly the right spot and you have a recipe for a delicious, nutritious and healing meal served in a session with him"
Sukanto Custers
"I experienced the joy of attending Berend's online circle last year, and it was a time that I cherish. The space he created was so open and welcoming, allowing me to connect deeply with myself and others. The pace was perfect with time to go inwards, reflect, and share. Berend truly listens to the needs of the others, and through this attunement, we were able to experience everything from laughter and smiles to tears and moments of deep quiet. I felt so much love, both giving and receiving. Another thing that stood out was Berend’s ability to guide, allowing the flow of the group to shape the experience, holding us all beautifully in that space. I also found it intriguing to be with and observe Berend himself, to get a glimpse into his mind. It was something quite unique to me. If you’re looking for a space to explore yourself, find connection, and be supported, I super recommend Berend. It was a time together that nourished my soul."
Asleigh
"I experienced the joy of attending Berend's online circle last year, and it was a time that I cherish. The space he created was so open and welcoming, allowing me to connect deeply with myself and others. The pace was perfect with time to go inwards, reflect, and share. Berend truly listens to the needs of the others, and through this attunement, we were able to experience everything from laughter and smiles to tears and moments of deep quiet. I felt so much love, both giving and receiving. Another thing that stood out was Berend’s ability to guide, allowing the flow of the group to shape the experience, holding us all beautifully in that space. I also found it intriguing to be with and observe Berend himself, to get a glimpse into his mind. It was something quite unique to me. If you’re looking for a space to explore yourself, find connection, and be supported, I super recommend Berend. It was a time together that nourished my soul."
Asleigh
"I experienced the joy of attending Berend's online circle last year, and it was a time that I cherish. The space he created was so open and welcoming, allowing me to connect deeply with myself and others. The pace was perfect with time to go inwards, reflect, and share. Berend truly listens to the needs of the others, and through this attunement, we were able to experience everything from laughter and smiles to tears and moments of deep quiet. I felt so much love, both giving and receiving. Another thing that stood out was Berend’s ability to guide, allowing the flow of the group to shape the experience, holding us all beautifully in that space. I also found it intriguing to be with and observe Berend himself, to get a glimpse into his mind. It was something quite unique to me. If you’re looking for a space to explore yourself, find connection, and be supported, I super recommend Berend. It was a time together that nourished my soul."
Asleigh
"Berend and I go back a long time. I lost sight of him for a while, but a few years ago our paths crossed again. Since then, we have had meaningful conversations with each other based on mutual recognition. Sometimes about major life questions, but sometimes also for fun. In the meantime, Berend has grown into the person I feel most safe with. This is because he is completely unbiased with regard to my faith and beliefs. He also dares to ask critical reflection questions, which has helped me to listen to my feelings much better. Berend is a sweet person who, through his 'being', can fully open up to others, without this feeling awkward. Very special what he has meant to me in recent years in my search for inner peace! One love Berend!"
Michel Kiezebrink
"Berend and I go back a long time. I lost sight of him for a while, but a few years ago our paths crossed again. Since then, we have had meaningful conversations with each other based on mutual recognition. Sometimes about major life questions, but sometimes also for fun. In the meantime, Berend has grown into the person I feel most safe with. This is because he is completely unbiased with regard to my faith and beliefs. He also dares to ask critical reflection questions, which has helped me to listen to my feelings much better. Berend is a sweet person who, through his 'being', can fully open up to others, without this feeling awkward. Very special what he has meant to me in recent years in my search for inner peace! One love Berend!"
Michel Kiezebrink
"Berend and I go back a long time. I lost sight of him for a while, but a few years ago our paths crossed again. Since then, we have had meaningful conversations with each other based on mutual recognition. Sometimes about major life questions, but sometimes also for fun. In the meantime, Berend has grown into the person I feel most safe with. This is because he is completely unbiased with regard to my faith and beliefs. He also dares to ask critical reflection questions, which has helped me to listen to my feelings much better. Berend is a sweet person who, through his 'being', can fully open up to others, without this feeling awkward. Very special what he has meant to me in recent years in my search for inner peace! One love Berend!"
Michel Kiezebrink
Some words to describe my experience with Berend in a sharing circle: he has loving attention, is gentle, open, clear, comforting, direct, involved, positive, without judgement, inspiring and calm with plenty of patience. He waits for your/my initiative, asks questions, and thinks along with you/me. He is a master at summarizing and keeping an overview. Also he can be playful and humorous at the right time. I find Berend special in his presence. And he is true to himself, that is also important.
Jeanne van Lieshout
Some words to describe my experience with Berend in a sharing circle: he has loving attention, is gentle, open, clear, comforting, direct, involved, positive, without judgement, inspiring and calm with plenty of patience. He waits for your/my initiative, asks questions, and thinks along with you/me. He is a master at summarizing and keeping an overview. Also he can be playful and humorous at the right time. I find Berend special in his presence. And he is true to himself, that is also important.
Jeanne van Lieshout
Some words to describe my experience with Berend in a sharing circle: he has loving attention, is gentle, open, clear, comforting, direct, involved, positive, without judgement, inspiring and calm with plenty of patience. He waits for your/my initiative, asks questions, and thinks along with you/me. He is a master at summarizing and keeping an overview. Also he can be playful and humorous at the right time. I find Berend special in his presence. And he is true to himself, that is also important.
Jeanne van Lieshout
"Berend and I have been sharing regenerative, restorative spaces with each other for over a year now. In Berend, I sense many wonderful traits. Genuine care for others, depth of feeling, and a high level of openness are particular qualities I notice that allow Berend to deliver meaningful support and service to a wide range of individuals. I look forward to watching Berend blossom the beauty in people more and more."
Andrew Stenger
"Berend and I have been sharing regenerative, restorative spaces with each other for over a year now. In Berend, I sense many wonderful traits. Genuine care for others, depth of feeling, and a high level of openness are particular qualities I notice that allow Berend to deliver meaningful support and service to a wide range of individuals. I look forward to watching Berend blossom the beauty in people more and more."
Andrew Stenger
"Berend and I have been sharing regenerative, restorative spaces with each other for over a year now. In Berend, I sense many wonderful traits. Genuine care for others, depth of feeling, and a high level of openness are particular qualities I notice that allow Berend to deliver meaningful support and service to a wide range of individuals. I look forward to watching Berend blossom the beauty in people more and more."
Andrew Stenger